Power-Up Your Presence: 4 Things to Leave Behind in 2020

As we get ready to roll into a new year, here are a few things to leave behind in 2020:

1)    Emotional Debt.  If someone did you a favor six years ago, how long do you feel you owe them to get that debt paid back?  Many of us tend to hold on to soured relationships or friendships because we feel we still owe that other person something—we make it a life-debt--despite the fact it’s been paid off many times over.  Holding on to an expired friendship does you no good except take up space for someone or something new and good to come into your life.  If you’ve repaid the favor, then realize your debt is paid.  Quit being emotionally debt-driven, and release those people from influencing you any further. Free up your time and energy for more positive people.    

2)    Bad advice.  No matter how well-meaning the advice or how well-intentioned the person, bad advice is bad advice.  On a number of occasions, I’ve had people of supposed “authority” give me their advice.  But my gut—my instinctive guide that I’ve now learned to follow much more closely—told me that wasn’t the wisdom I needed to follow.  When you can learn to fine-tune your intuition and listen to your own inner wisdom, you can discern when bad advice is being given.  Bad advice will keep you thinking small and living in fear.  Tap into your intuition and trust your judgment. 

3)    Mind Clutter.  Now is the best time to get rid of emotional mind clutter.  I’m talking about the negative newsfeeds and toxic people who no longer deserve space in your life.  Release them, let them fly free and allow clarity and positivity to take their place.  You deserve better.  You deserve good energy and good people in your space.   

4)    Disempowering Beliefs.  While the outside world is still in a whirl, now is the perfect time to go within and strengthen your “self” and inner core. Re-build your foundation. You may not be able to control your circumstances, but you can control how you choose to respond to what’s happening around you.  Managing your mindset and coming from a place of strength allows you to make better decisions, act with integrity and alignment, and move more quickly through uncomfortable situations.

Power-Up Your Presence in 2021. We’ve all walked through the fire that was 2020.  It’s time to pivot. Learn to re-define your purpose, discover your next chapter, and connect to your higher self for a more empowered you in 2021.   It may not be easy to do this by yourself, so if you need help, I encourage you to grab some coffee or cocoa and watch my 5 Keys Masterclass Webinar.